Straight men generally live in their own world. Even when getting along with girls, they will not step out of their own world. They usually don’t care about girls’ opinions, don’t know how to be considerate of girls, and even once If you feel good about yourself, how do straight men usually behave when chatting with girls?
1. Always interrupting girls
In real life, it is very impolite to interrupt someone in the middle of what they are saying. If it only happens occasionally, forget it. If it happens all the time, you will not only be regarded as a straight man by girls, but it may even make her dislike you.
So how should this situation be changed?
In fact, it is very simple. Know how to listen carefully and know that letting others finish their words is a form of respect and politeness. If a girl doesn't finish speaking, how can you know what she wants to express? How can you better pursue her?
2. Don’t care about girls’ feelings
The reason why we have topics to talk about every day is because there are new topics every day. But straight men with cancer always like to talk about topics that no one cares about, such as: "Have you heard that gay marriage has been legalized in the United States! I have a friend..."
"I think the legalization of gay marriage is too hasty. This is a serious social issue." "Oh, I'm just chatting... I heard that gay friends in China are very excited!" Woman: "I don't think this is something we can talk about casually, and what's happening in the United States have to do with us?"
How do straight men who can't chat find a girlfriend? "Straight men" "Cancer" It is best for boys to talk about things that everyone is interested in or around when chatting. If he is interested in the topic, discuss it. If no one cares about a topic like the U.S.’s attack on Afghanistan, and you are the only one talking about it, what fun is there?
3. Like to bring the topic back to themselves
When straight men are chatting, they will unknowingly bring the topic back to themselves. For example: a girl was originally talking about whether her friend’s dog had given birth. After taking a few away, he said, "I've had dogs before," and then started talking about how well-behaved and obedient his dogs were back then.
This is a sign of not being able to express. Therefore, it is very important to learn certain expression skills. In life, you cannot say a word. This will appear dull and boring. How can you attract girls? What about your happiness? Especially for those who are new to love, they need to develop their ability to express themselves.
4. Likes to refute girls’ opinions
Straight men like to have their own opinions, so he likes to refute no matter what other people’s opinions are. For example:
Girls: "Let's go to XXX for dinner tonight..."
Straight male cancer boys: "I don't like eating."
Girls: "Then let's go to XXX!"
Straight male cancer boy: "Don't you think that store is dirty?"
Girl: "Then choose a place! "
Straight male cancer boy: "Whatever!"
When a girl makes a decision, you just say no. Then the girl thinks that since you deny me, I will let you do it, but you just say "whatever." Who wouldn't be disgusted by such a chat, let alone a girl. So if you want to change this, don't always deny others. If it's a team gathering, just go with the flow. If you are with a girl you like, you might as well tell her what you want to eat today and what you don’t want to eat, and just set a place together.
If you want to win the favor of girls, the first task is to learn to chat with girls. It is not easy to chat well, but it is very easy to chat badly. This is especially true for boys with straight male cancer. It is more obvious on the body.