When you first started chatting with a girl, you had a good conversation, but after a period of time, she suddenly became irritable and ignored you, leaving many boys confused. What is the reason why a girl suddenly ignores you? , and how to break this situation?
1. Reasons why girls suddenly ignore you
Generally speaking, there are three reasons why girls ignore you:
1. Girls are not interested in your topic
2. The interaction of the chat is poor, and each other’s Less communication
3. The chat is no longer in the same channel
No matter which of the above 3 reasons, it boils down to the fact that you have not found the girl’s point of interest and let the girl chat with you. I'm not interested, so I ignore you.
2. Change the situation where girls ignore you
So how to judge the points of interest in girls’ words? How to change the situation where girls ignore you?
General girls’ interests can be judged from these aspects:
1. Words that girls often use in chats
Girls are emotional creatures. They like to share their feelings. When a girl mentions something or certain keywords more than twice intentionally or unintentionally during a chat, then if a girl mentions it repeatedly, it means she wants to I want to talk to you and share topics, such as:
Boy: The weather is nice today
Girl: Really, I almost froze to death last time I went to Shanghai
Boys: A bowl of wontons in the morning will be much better
Girls: Yes, when I was in Shanghai, this was a wonton noodle shop. It was super delicious
Here, many boys will think that girls want to chat with them about food, but in fact, the keyword that appears repeatedly in girls’ words is Shanghai. Girls subconsciously want to find opportunities to talk about Shanghai with others.
In this case, you only need to expand the topic based on the keywords she has mentioned many times: When did you go to Shanghai? Where did you go in Shanghai? Girls are very happy to chat with you. .
2. What girls focus on replying to during chats
Many boys complain that when chatting with girls, she keeps Replying to um, oh, always feels very perfunctory, so I keep changing the topic. When girls reply to a topic you raise more often, you should pay attention, such as:
Boys: Today’s weather It’s so cold
Girls: Yes
Boys: What are you going to do today?
Girls: Rest
Boys: I’m going to do something todayI am going to finish "Fortress Besieged" today
Girl: Are you reading Qian Zhongshu's book? It is a satirical novel with a unique style
It is not difficult to tell from the above chat process The girls were not very interested in what the boys had said before, but when "Besieged City" was mentioned, the girls' replies increased. At this time, they should not change the topic, but focus on "Besieged City" to have an in-depth chat.
3. Chat with the other party about "her" and continue to expand on a topic
When facing a girl during the chat process When there are no repeated keywords in the topic and there is no relatively enthusiastic response to a certain topic you raised, it means that girls are really not interested in your topic. The best way is to talk to the other party about "her".
1) Find topics based on a girl’s circle of friends
A girl’s circle of friends is a showcase for girls. When a girl is willing to share something to let others know, then it must be her If you are interested, for example, if a girl posts her fitness photos, you can talk to the girl about fitness. The girl will be willing to talk to you.
2) Talk about her happy things
Here you can start with "You are very happy (sad) recently" to guide the girl to talk about her happy or sad things, but Instead of talking about sad things, try to talk to girls about happy things, because only when girls are in a better mood can they talk more.
3) Chat about her hobbies
You can talk to a girl about her hobbies, generally speaking, they are photography, food, fitness, etc. In short, chatting is a way to catch up with her interests. process. Don't change the topic just for the sake of changing the topic. Changing the topic is to help you find the topic that the other party is really interested in.
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