There is definitely no problem in pursuing girls and chatting with more girls, but if you encounter some taboos during the chat, it may be counterproductive. So what are the taboos in chatting with girls?
< h2>What are the taboos when chatting with girls?1. Chat too frequently
Unless a girl likes you very much, it is not recommended to talk too much For those who chat frequently, usually with a girl who has just met her not long ago, if you chat with him too frequently, it will only make the girl feel that you are giving too much, and that it will be very annoying if the relationship has not reached that stage.
Therefore, if you have just met a girl and she is still observing you and is not ready to start getting to know you, do not chat with her too frequently. At the beginning, be polite and reciprocate, and she will say, "You Let me also say, if she doesn't reply to you instantly, don't always reply to others instantly, and have a little bit of your own temper.
2. Chatting for a long time does not mean chatting well
Most boys know how to let girls see His own shining points made her have a good impression of him, but he used the wrong method to show his shining points.
For example, when you get an opportunity, you will say: I can do this, I can do that, I have everything, I am willing to buy it for you, etc.
You think this is showing off your strengths, but why is it more like bragging?
For example, girls are not very good at cooking, but you are good at this. You are pretty good at it, so I asked you to tell me how to make this tomato scrambled egg delicious.
As a result, you not only want to talk about tomato scrambled eggs, but also mapo tofu, kung pao chicken, fish-flavored shredded pork, and boiled pork. Anyway, you have said everything you can cook.
Why not change the method and just say that you still have a lot, and you can cook it for her when you have time. If you really want to take in an apprentice, you can teach her in person when you meet.
At least we can meet each other, which is a step closer to the relationship. Otherwise, if you get tired of chatting with others on WeChat, how can we meet each other? The relationship will only become weaker and weaker as we chat.
3. Girls do whatever they say
All have received nine years of compulsory education, and both With two arms and two legs, why do you have to have a girl say whatever you want when you’re chatting with her?
Boys who think this way must be thinking that girls are stupid?
Wake up, most girls are not stupid, and like you, have the ability to think independently. She will not really like a boy who has no ideas of his own and blindly follows everything.
It is true that most people would like to find someone who has the same interests as themselves, but for those who are like themselves,Even if you like people differently, girls won’t dislike them, so express what you need to express and have a bit of your own personality.
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