Most boys, after adding a girl on WeChat, obviously don’t know anything about the other party, so they forcefully find topics to talk about. Fortunately, the chat can continue after they get to the other party’s preferences. And once the conversation goes in the wrong direction, the conversation becomes more and more awkward, so that in the end the other party doesn't want to continue chatting. So how do you start chatting with a girl on WeChat without being embarrassed?
1. First follow the girl’s circle of friends< /h2>
Since chatting becomes awkward because we don’t understand each other, then we must start by understanding each other! After adding WeChat, the fastest way to understand each other is through each other’s circle of friends It’s dynamic.
Therefore, our first step is to understand the girls’ life dynamics, interests, hobbies, etc. through the dynamics of the girls’ circle of friends. This way you don’t have to guess and you can directly find the topics that girls like.
To give an example, for example, a girl said in the circle of friends that Jay Chou's new song "Mojito" sounds good, and you happen to like Jay Chou. At this time, you can comment, tastefully, you also like Jay Chou!
Then contact the girl on WeChat and ask her which Jay song she likes best, and then you can talk about Jay’s life together, so that you can chat for at least several hours.
2. Universal topic
Of course, there may be unexpected situations, such as the other party’s friends. The circle is visible for three days, or there is no message at all, so what should we do at this time?
In fact, we still have some universal topics, such as idol gossip, movies and food, travel, etc. These are all topics that girls like.
For example, on the all-purpose topic of food, we all know that eating and drinking are human nature.
Whether it’s Internet celebrity hot pot or Japanese cuisine, most girls simply can’t resist delicious food.
And there is no threshold for talking about this topic. If you have nothing to do, you can read Xiaohongshu, Weibo, etc., and you can basically have a few words.
For example, you see a girl posting a message in Moments saying she wants to eat hot pot.
Then one day you happened to go to a pretty good hot pot restaurant with a few friends. The taste and price were pretty good. At this time, you can send her a WeChat message!
"Hi! I remember last time you said you wanted to eat hot pot. Today my friends and I went to a pretty good hot pot restaurant. You can try it next time."
No matter whether the girl will agree with you or not You go, you plant an anchor in your heart.
Because she will definitely mention you when she goes to eat with her best friends.
Under normal circumstances, when your status as a food expert is establishedAfter that, you can recommend delicious food to her openly, or directly invite her to go with you.
3. Use emoticons skillfully
Reading text for a long time will inevitably make people feel bored and boring. , so when you open a topic with a girl, you must not just chat with a single text. Reply with some interesting emoticons appropriately, which can increase the feeling between you two.
I have a friend who will repeatedly use the emoticon in WeChat many times when chatting with many people. Therefore, when I see this emoticon now, I will think of him.
There are certain things to pay attention to when using emoticons. You cannot send too common emoticons, like the commonly used emoticons on WeChat, which will not have the effect of implanting a heart anchor.
Now that Internet social networking is developed, emoticons can be said to be the hard currency of online social networking.
At the same time, the use of emoticons can also make the atmosphere of chatting with each other more interesting. When we chat with girls, we always encounter situations where someone suddenly says the wrong thing and the situation becomes awkward.
Whether the girl said something wrong or we ourselves said something wrong, if we don’t save it in time, we may be chatted to death that day. At this time, emoji packs can help. With one quick action, your embarrassment will be swept away.
The clever use of emoticons can break any atmosphere, and then help us redirect the atmosphere and control the direction of the chat. Of course, it is best to make the emoticons yourself. You can make emoticons related to girls, or you can use emoticons made of your own avatar.
When chatting after adding a girl on WeChat, as long as you pay attention to these details, you can not only avoid awkward chats, but also increase your recognition and make you an unforgettable presence in the other person's heart.
❋ Tags: