Recently, I received a consultation from a boy. He said that he had been having an affair with a girl for a long time, but he always felt that the girl didn't like him at all. However, the chat with him on WeChat was very lively, but once he said it, He disappears when the invitation comes, or keeps silent. He can't tell what the girl is thinking at the first time, so he comes to me for help. He briefly tells me the situation: He and the girl often chat on WeChat. In full swing, she would occasionally give the girl some gifts or order some takeout for her, but whenever she wanted to invite her out to meet, she would always have various reasons to shirk it, or change her mind at the last minute. The most outrageous thing was that she had Once, they had made an appointment, and the boy also arrived at the agreed place, but the girl temporarily said that her best friend wanted to see her for something, so she let the boy go. The boy waited for almost an hour, but in the end he received this reply, alone Being overwhelmed in the cold wind is a situation that many boys have encountered. They feel helpless but don’t know what to do.
In this case, it may be that the girl is pretending to like you, because some girls are more vain. They will enjoy the kindness of the opposite sex to them, enjoy the efforts of the opposite sex for them, and worry about gains and losses for her. She will They feel that they are very attractive like this, and they will happily use what others have done to them as a way to show off. Moreover, they will extract value from their so-called ambiguous partners. When the value of their ambiguous partners is drained, they will He will kick it away without hesitation and look for the next target. In fact, if a girl pretends to like you, there are still signs to follow. Generally, they will have these characteristics:
Girls Pretending to like your performance
1. She never admits her mistakes
In fact, she pretends not to know if she is wrong, changes the subject, and gets away with it. Moreover, many boys often cooperate with her in pretending to be crazy and foolish without thinking about it. When she thinks that her little trick is successful, she will continue to say all kinds of nice things to her ambiguous partners and coax them to continue to pay for her.
2. You will always be in the last place
There will never be a preference for sex over friends, her family, her friends, her work, or even Her express delivery is more important than yours, and you are always ranked last.
3. All talk but no action
I say I like you, but never take any actual action. Just like the boy mentioned above, she has heard girls express their affection for her more than once, but she has never received any actual expression from girls. Even every invitation is initiated by boys, and the number of successful invitations is There are only a handful of them. And in these only few dates, girls may leave early for various inexplicable reasons, or. It's a direct break of the appointment, and no explanation will be given to you.
4. I won’t give it to youExplanation
Girls who pretend to like you will let you think wildly. Even if you ask any questions, they will not explain. Put yourself in someone else's shoes, if you like a girl, you would spend a long time explaining every little thing to her, but when you don't love her anymore, are you too lazy to explain?
How many of the above-mentioned girls pretend to like you have you encountered? In fact, I believe that boys have encountered it more or less, but they have spent a lot of time and money in vain, and in the end they have lost their lives and money. In the end, they have not figured out why they are so unpopular. It is really sad. .
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