It is not easy to chase girls nowadays. There are many unspoken rules that need to be paid attention to, especially when you start to chase a girl. Today, the editor will help you sort out these unspoken rules for getting along with girls. Let’s take a look at what you need to pay attention to when you first start chasing girls.
1. Don’t reveal your purpose too quickly
In the past, carriages and horses were very slow; Letters are far away, and a lifetime is only enough to love one person.
Nowadays, the Internet speed is very fast and contact is very convenient. You can change someone in ten days and a half.
So you complain, I wasted half a month. I was so good to her, does she raise fish?
Have you ever thought about half a month, you I haven’t even figured out how many people are in her family, whether she has light or heavy tastes, whether she is quiet by nature or because she is not familiar with you. How come she confesses her love so easily?
She likes her so quickly. and gave up so quickly, who would dare to believe that you are sincere?
To put it another way, if you give her gifts and treat her to a few meals, she can’t wait to fall in love with you. With such a relationship, you Really down-to-earth?
So, in this age where everything is fast, relationships should still be as slow as possible, and a little slower, so that you can taste the taste of love.
2. Don’t think that you can establish an intimate relationship by chatting
Many boys think that chatting with girls is the best way You can like yourself.
Then I would like to talk to others every day.
I’m not saying, what’s the difference between you and netizens like this?
Just remember that I said you need to learn to chat with girls, then I also said, after chatting almost all Why did you forget about creating opportunities to meet?
Chatting can build connections, but the premise is that you have to talk to the point.
Only if it can help you understand her, or let her understand you, can it be considered an "effective chat", the content of the chat is the most important.
3. Don’t express your thoughts too directly
Some people obviously don’t have any bad intentions. But I don’t know why, but the taste changed as soon as the words came to my mouth.
For example:
Female: “I have eaten too much recently and I really need to lose weight.”
Male: “That’s not necessary.”
Female: “??”
Male: “You’re not fat.”
Is there anything wrong with what you want to say? Not really, it’s obviously okay. After saying that, why are you gasping for breath? It still seems very perfunctory.
Ten thousandWhen a girl gets angry, you have to explain for a long time, why bother?
Wouldn’t it be nice if you just say, “I don’t think you are fat at all, you don’t need to lose weight”?
But I can also understand that boys think more directly and often speak literally, without so many roundabout thoughts.
But for girls, it may be more difficult to accept.
So when we usually communicate with girls, we try not to be so "straight". In some words, if we add two words and extend them, the tone will be completely different.
For example, if a girl asks you what you are doing, and you answer "eating" and "I am eating", although the meaning is the same, because of the addition of some modal particles, it sounds very different.
The following sentence makes it feel like you are replying to her message seriously instead of being cold and perfunctory.
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