When choosing a blind date or agreeing to go on a blind date, you basically hope that the other person will develop in a long-term direction. However, many boys on the blind date are not very good at chatting, so they cannot fully understand each other.
In fact, dating and chatting requires a lot of skills. When many brothers meet girls on a blind date, let alone understanding each other, they always don't know what to say or what to do. The occurrence of this situation has resulted in a girl having a good first impression of you, but in the end she rejects you because she has no feelings for you. This is a pity.
So how should we chat and act during a blind date so that we can fully understand what kind of girl she is?
The first point: judge these 3 items first. The person you want to date on a blind date
(1) Your character must be upright. If you are asked about whether you have a car or a house as soon as you get started, and you care more about finances and money, then it is very likely that you are a money-worshiping girl< /p>
(2) Although the appearance is not required to be beautiful, you must like it. Reluctantly going on a blind date will be a waste of time for both parties
(3) Personality must be cheerful and interesting
The second point: Understand the other party’s values ????
Values ??are such a vain thing to say, but One way to show this is to see what the other person hates.
Many times, we don’t know what we like the most, but instead talk about some annoying things or things, because when we touch the pain points, we will have more to say. And what you hate better reflects a person's values.
Of course, the premise is that you need to throw the bricks first and open up the topic before you can lead to jade.
Here I will share with you a boy’s blind date story:
The two people arrived at the agreed place and said hello. , confirm the identity, then take a seat, and start... big eyes and small eyes.
After more than ten minutes without speaking, the boy thought: As a man, it seems not good to not take the initiative, so he took the initiative to open the topic and said:
"Well, you What do you like?"
"Eat."
"What else?"
"No more..."
Atmosphere. It was very embarrassing, and we couldn't continue chatting, so we could only eat in silence. Fortunately, the food was quite good, and we could see that she was really a foodie, and she ate with relish.
Then the boy said:
"Speaking of food, do you have any taboos? I don’t like eating mutton very much. I feel disgusting.The smell is so strong that I can't stand it, and I won't even choose it when eating hot pot. ”
She looked at the boy, still eating in her mouth. After dozens of seconds, she took the food out of her mouth. Empty it, and then the girl said: "How could it be? That's because the mutton was not processed well. Let me tell you, mutton is delicious when eaten like this, balabala..."
Then the girl continued: "Actually, There are also things I don’t like to eat. I can’t eat bitter melon and balabala. I hate it when people say it’s a waste that I eat so much but don’t gain weight. Why, balabala. "
During that meal, the boys and girls became happier and happier as they chatted. From the process of chatting, the boys also felt that the girl was actually a relatively simple little girl.
Values This is everyone's core thinking. If two people's values ??are too different, even if they are twisted together, it will not be sweet. For happiness and to avoid pain, you must know it.
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