Many boys pursue girls in a kneeling and licking style, which is very humble and without any dignity, especially when chatting. This method can easily expose their need and make girls feel disgusted. So how to avoid kneeling and licking while chatting?
It may not be very intuitive to say it this way. Here is an example of kneeling and licking chat:
Male : Goddess, you look so beautiful in this photo?
Female: Thank you.
Male: It’s true! The word “closed moon and shy flower” is used to describe you, hahaha.
Why do you think you are chatting like this? Girls will think you are a greasy guy and don’t want to talk to you at all.
Male: What do you want to eat today? I will order it for you?
Female: Why do you want to order it for me all of a sudden?
Male: I just want to treat you to something. Come again. A cup of milk tea?
Female: No need
Male: Whatever you want to eat, I’ll buy it for you.
Girl: Thank you, no need.
If you ask a girl what she needs when you are not very familiar with her, how do you get her to reply to you? Although you have good intentions, you actually know how to ask girls. Very embarrassing.
And good girls won’t let you spend money for no reason. If you use this method, you can only attract scumbag girls, just waiting for you to lose money.
Also out of concern, why does your concern make girls embarrassed and attract scumbags, while other people's concern makes girls feel Just right?
The fundamental reason is that you can’t express yourself through chatting, you can’t grasp the timing of chatting, when to care and when to be ambiguous, and what to say in different stages of relationships.
Don’t think, wow, communicating with girls is too tiring. In fact, when you are dating anyone, don't try to please her. The more you stick to it, the closer you will be to a spare tire.
If you want her to be attracted to you, you have to attract her. What you have to do is to get rid of this kind of kneeling and licking chat. Here is a trick to teach you, that is: transform your thinking and respond against the norm.
If you want to stand out among many boys through chatting, then you have to answer the same questions differently from other boys. This can ensure your uniqueness.
Therefore, you need to think reversely to stimulate and lead girls’ emotions and feelings.
Let me give you an example:
The girl said: I had a fight with my dad again today, which is very sad.
Normal reply: What’s wrong? Tell me.
Kneeling Reply: Your dad is a little too much, don’t be sad, I feel very sorry for you.
Reverse reply: Just like you, I always quarrel with my family. It will be fine after a few hours~ (Looking for resonance)
I don’t know how to comfort you. Let’s go out and walk together. Nothing is a meal. If hot pot can't solve it, I'll treat you to it hahaha. (Take the opportunity to invite)
The reverse chat method can help everyone become more "unique". When a girl sends a message, don't rush to reply. Pass away those things that make girls think you are boring and kneeling. If you lick, change the way of expression, she will feel that chatting with you is a very pleasant and relaxing thing, and she will not forget you as time goes by.
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