I found that many of my friends don’t know how to chat with girls. This is not okay. In this Internet era, if you don’t know how to chat, sooner or later you will Will be "fired". So today the editor will bring you some tips on chatting with girls, let’s learn them together.
First of all, we must understand the establishment of attraction between the two sexes. The progression of the relationship is as follows:
Stranger - friend - good friend - lover - partner
First of all, strangers can become friends because of trust, and the prerequisite for building social relationships is trust. In fact, the establishment of this sense of trust needs to be established through chatting. Then there are the following types of questions to build trust.
The first level of each other’s interests
For example, I like playing guitar, so I send her a guitar video. , play it by yourself, and then guide her to reply to you about her hobbies! During this kind of interaction, don’t forget to spread the topic and look for keywords!
Second level past experience< /h2>
For example, I have experienced something and what happened later, and then I will guide her how to talk about her past experience. At this time, you can use similar experiences to resonate and quickly bring you closer!
The third level is to describe how we do it and bring you to a common level
In other words, generally in this At that time, the girl window opened and we had already invited her out. So after making an appointment, we should describe our current status more during the chat to give her a sense of synergy. It can also show future expectations, what we will do in the future, and what I will do in the future!
The fourth level is to tell some embarrassing things about yourself Embarrassing things about the other person
When the chat is going well, in order to let the two people have a deeper understanding, you can take the initiative to tell some embarrassing things.
For example: "Hey, you know I got lost when I went to XX place last time, and my phone was out of battery. I finally found it with the help of the police." This will quickly make the other person feel that you are very real. , increase greater trust!
The fifth level of three-view value output
In the previous chats, we were all providing emotional value to girls, but the attraction established by emotional value is very Shallow. So at this time, we have to take the initiative to expose ourselves, our outlook on love, our outlook on life, etc., and let the other person express their outlook on life, and then we can give the other person a certain amount of empathy and empathy. Then give recognition and at the same time output better three values!
Finally, share a few unchanging theorems in love!
1) Love yourself first before loving others!
2) Love—Murphy's law (the more you are afraid of losing, the more you will lose).
3) Love - the forbidden fruit effect (the less you get, the more you want).
4) Routines are not popular, but the actual routines still have to be possessed by the sincerity!
5) If you only know how to attract, but not how to manage, it will be in vain if you fall in love, and it will only increase your worries!
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