I believe everyone has heard that men think in straight lines and women think in curves, so if boys only use their own way of thinking to chat with girls, it is easy for girls to not want to chat with you. Today I will teach you some ways to change your straight-line thinking in chatting.
【Case】
Female: What are you doing?
Male: Here Watch the replay of my idol’s game
Female: Who is your idol? What game is it?
Male: Do you know about basketball? Haha, I guess you don’t even know
Female: Okay, just watch it slowly
Male: It’s okay, I can chat with you while watching it
Female: I have something to do too, next time Let’s talk again
Now you answer first. When a girl asks: Who is your idol? What kind of competition is it?
After that, you guess that this may be her knowledge blind spot. How do you answer at this time?
I seem to be able to see you thinking seriously at this moment, but in fact, whether you want to answer directly or not is not the most important. No matter what, we need to talk about something else, that is, paving more roads as we mentioned earlier, so why?
Take the case above as an example.
When she doesn’t know anything about your idol, some boys’ straight-line thinking is like the naive boy above, and they may say to girls, “You girls are not interested” or “ I guess you don’t know even if I tell you.”
Nonsense, I don’t know, I don’t know, I don’t know Baidu, why am I so brainless just chatting with you?
There are some boys who are even cuter. You have someone who can talk to you about what you are interested in. You can’t wait to tell girls about your idol’s career and glory. Shi? said, yes. But can you guarantee the length of the article?
Will you directly persuade the girl to leave on the spot?
Will you tell her that she is sleepy?
Do you talk too much and the girl hesitates several times?
Do you expose too many values ??but hit the minefield for girls?
Then in the end you really let it go Now that we’ve finished talking, what should we talk about next?
Will there be a kind of embarrassment that there is a huge gap between the topic and the previous one?
Will it be so embarrassing that the girl suddenly suddenly I told you to talk to you next time?
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So, everyone, you You can chat, but in order to avoid the embarrassment of saying too much and running out of topics, please be sure to speak in advanceInterspersed with each other, chatting about other things casually and unpretentiously, like this——
Female: What are you doing
Male: Watching the replay of my idol’s game
Female: Who is your idol? What game is it?
Male: Do you want to hear about basketball? Oh, by the way, have you learned the dish I told you last time? ?
Female: I don’t know much about basketball, but I don’t reject it. I tried that dish and it seemed to be a failure haha
Male: If it doesn’t work, just go to the store to eat it. If it fails to cook at home, it will affect your mood, so let’s just take a shortcut haha
Female : Yes, that’s right. The nearest stores are opening one after another...
Male: It’s okay. We can go together then. By the way, what do you usually watch at home? TV series or? Do you have any recommendations? I’m so bored lately
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Look Look, in a conversation, you can have many points of divergence. From basketball to food, and then from food to hobbies, you can change the topic cleverly and naturally, and there will be a wave of vague invitations by the way. How nice.
Why do you insist on holding on to one point? You need to prepare a few more lines for yourself. When you and a girl first start to contact each other and chat, the focus of these lines can be more on the other party. When doing this, use more questions to introduce topics, throw threads to the other party, and let the other party express as much as possible. The more the other party expresses, the more threads you will have.
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