Many boys have the idea that "being single is good, only fools fall in love", but I have to say that if a relationship is really placed in front of boys like you, most of them would be willing to be fools.
And sometimes relationships really require being silly and thick-skinned. Regarding the definition of a fool, everyone thinks that persistent pursuit is stupid, and giving without asking for anything is stupid. They think that pursuit is tiring and difficult, and the results are uncertain, so you should retreat when faced with difficulties, otherwise you are stupid.
I can understand this point of view. After all, there are too many Neptunes and a lot of scum. In a sense, not easily consuming your emotions and money is self-protection.
But the problem is that people need intimacy and a partner, and they have to take this step after all.
Everyone is protecting themselves. No one wants to be a fool. Even if the other person is just a little indifferent, he will find it difficult and start to escape. The result of retreating step by step is that he will lose his ability to solve problems.
As the saying goes, good girls are afraid of being difficult to deal with. In fact, sometimes people need to be a little silly.
It doesn’t mean that you should stick it on others like a piece of dog-skin plaster, but within a certain bottom line, let go and chase and love boldly.
No one is born warm and open to strangers. Normal men and women need a process of changing from cold to hot. In this process, some people often withdraw early because they are afraid that they are "stupid".
As everyone knows, it is precisely because of this that you will be labeled by the other party as not firm and just for fun and rejected.
Sometimes I am really curious, since everyone has mustered up the courage to pursue it, why not go on firmly.
Even if you are not accepted by the other party in the end, you will continue to improve in the process of fighting with her, and your ability to solve love problems will become better and better, which will make the person you match better and better.
To be honest, if you stick to it, you really won’t lose anything by being stupid.
On the other hand, the more you retreat, the more submissive you become, and the more tired you become in the end.
When I was so tired that I gave up the idea of ??experiencing it again after experiencing it once, I simply quit.
But people are interesting. People will never allow themselves to be wrong or incompetent. Even if they are wrong, they will find ways for themselves. Good reason.
So, you start to persuade yourself, accept yourself, and laugh at those people who are still willing to face difficulties as "stupid".
In fact, you can always think that you are right, but you have to admit that you long for love in your heart.
When you laugh, when you are jealous, when you make excuses for yourself to reconcile with yourself, you are enviousI envy those silly and shameless people who have love.
If you still think you shouldn’t be stupid in this matter, then we want to put it another way and tell you – be brave.
Don’t run away, running away won’t solve any problems. When you face it bravely, you have already won. At most, you will be blacklisted, but at least you will have no regrets, just in case the other party is waiting for you to take this step forward.
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