When chasing girls, many boys will encounter such a problem: they try their best to find topics that girls like to talk about on WeChat, but in the end, they become male best friends through chatting inexplicably. What is the reason for this?
It is mainly because there is something wrong with the way you chat on WeChat, which causes girls to I don't treat you as a male, but as a best friend. For example, this chat:
In the chat record, when the girl complained about her ex-boyfriend not cherishing her feelings, the boy chose to have sex with the girl They complained that men are all big pigs, causing Xiaoyue to joke that he can only "like girls". In fact, the best thing to do at this time is to not only express and understand the girl's thoughts and feelings, but also let her know that she and her ex-boyfriend are different.
I will value and cherish her feelings, and give her a beautiful love life, instead of really helping her vent her anger and complain about men like a good sister. Of course, the result is that girls are not angry with boys at all. Out of love between men and women.
In order to help everyone solve this problem, the editor specially summarized a trick to help you avoid becoming a male best friend when chatting on WeChat.
1. Make your position clear and get along with the other person as your boyfriend
As a boy, you should be stronger than a girl. If you have a good relationship with the other person, Under the premise, you have to force her. After all, most relationships are not love at first sight, but are achieved through getting along.
So you have to stand firm. You can say, let’s try being boyfriend and girlfriend for a while. If it’s not suitable, then separating will not affect their friendship. On the other hand, you have to Treat yourself as the other person's boyfriend, and you must have all the responsibilities, obligations and care you should have. What impresses a girl is not your appearance but your sincerity. If you don't want to become her best friend, you have to position yourself accordingly. She takes your position seriously.
2. Repeat keywords
Repeating keywords in girls’ words can easily give girls the feeling of “this person understands me”, and girls will think to you “We have a tacit understanding.” ", "We are of the same mind".
How to repeat key words?
For example, in this conversation, repeat the "long" that the girl wants to emphasize. With the keyword "big", after a girl hears your reply, she will feel that "he understands what I am talking about" and "he really understands me."
In this conversation, the boy repeated the girl's topic keyword "love", and the girl would feel"He recognized what I said" and "he also liked this topic very much."
3. Use guiding words
Most people are not born to be liked by everyone, especially when facing a girl who has no special feelings for you. You need to use guiding words to actively let girls have some "different" feelings towards you:
When you first get up in the morning, or at night Before bed is the best time to use guiding words. At this time, people are generally in a trance state and are very easy to be led. If you use words to guide ambiguous tendencies, girls will easily fall into your "trap" and have some different feelings towards you.
If you want a girl to go from having no feelings for you to becoming interested in you or even being completely devoted to you, you must learn chatting skills and create a chatting atmosphere.
When a girl has a pleasant chatting experience with you, it is an opportunity for your relationship to take a further step. Therefore, the necessary chatting skills are the "secret weapons" of love that you must master.