Many boys think that being rich and handsome are the criteria for girls to choose a mate. But in fact, as long as you carefully observe your surroundings, it is not difficult to find that some people are not handsome. Boys who don’t have much money still have no shortage of girls around them. Then What type of boys do girls like?
1. Positive attitude towards life
No one likes a person who is full of negative energy every day and often complains about life. Girls will not like such a man even more.
The energy of a person will infect the people around him and have an impact on the people around him. People who live a positive life will make the people around him also very positive. People who only complain about life every day will also make them People around you become negative.
For example, when faced with some pressure or unhappiness at work, you can resist the pressure and adjust your emotions in a timely manner, instead of just complaining about social injustice every day and bringing your emotions to others.
A positive partner will lead his partner to become a better person.
2. Full of sense of humor
Everyone has heard the saying, "All good-looking skins are the same, but interesting souls are unique." Regardless of boys or girls, interesting people will be more interesting. Likeable.
Only when a girl is happy with you will she be willing to stay with you for a long time.
You might say, I am just a straight man, and I can’t speak.
In fact, humor is not just about telling jokes or making her happy every day. There is also a kind of humor that you can use to resolve some contradictions and conflicts in life in a relaxed and happy way.
3. Careful and considerate
Girls pay great attention to details, and many times some boys are not very outstanding in appearance. They are able to catch girls because they can catch some details of girls and impress them.
For example, she casually says that she likes to eat roasted chestnuts with sugar, and then you buy them for her every few days.
Before eating, you take the initiative to ask girls what they don’t like to eat and what they like to eat, and keep records yourself.
You will remember what she said casually, and then you will help her realize it next time. These seemingly small things, if done well, will make girls treat you more and more. Come to like it more and more.
Girls like to feel taken care of. Your attentiveness will make the other person feel protected and make her feel dependent on you. This is not about pleasing the other person, but using your actions to make the other person feel that you value her.
4. Can create surprises
There is no girl who doesn’t like surprises and romanceComics, every girl wants to be favored by boys, so she can create some romance and surprises in her life.
For example:
You secretly bought a ticket to go with her to the concert she was thinking about.
She likes to eat hot pot, so you place an order quietly and check into the hot pot restaurant with her.
Of course, it does not mean that surprises should be created every day, and everything is enough. It doesn’t matter what the surprise is. The most important thing is that you can do it with your heart instead of treating it as a burden.
It’s not as difficult as you think to make girls like you, it’s just that you haven’t understood the psychology of girls.
It is important to pursue a girl’s own excellence, but the method is also important. The routines are learned, but we are serious about pursuing girls.
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