Let me ask you a question. In your opinion, what is the most comfortable way for couples to get along? Is the closer the better? Today I will share my own views on this issue. Let’s take a look. Bar.
First of all, let me talk about my own point of view. I don’t think the closer the couple is, the better, so in my opinion, The most comfortable way for couples to get along is to have their own space.
I will share a friend’s story here and use his story to confirm my statement. Read on.
My friend and his wife fell in love on campus and are now married and have children. They have started a business together and have experienced ups and downs together. Their relationship is getting better and better. They are a perfect couple in the eyes of friends.
Last year, my friend’s wife had three surgeries due to physical discomfort. During the three surgeries, my friend accompanied her closely. During the last surgery, only one family member could accompany her in the hospital, so in this part of the hospital. Within a few days he became a friend and his wife was truly alone.
It was this time alone that made the two of us almost explode!!! We had been arguing about an issue. The more we talked about it, the more excited we became, and we started to argue almost non-stop. The friend realized something was wrong and stopped the imminent war in time. Calm down~
So the friend began to think about why there was a quarrel? His own analysis of the problem:
1. The hospital is a place that makes people easily irritated. The time spent in the hospital exceeded the expected number of days.
2. There is nothing else to do every day. Gemini men who love adventure and freedom are in jail.
3. People cannot be too idle. If they are too idle, they can only rely on thinking. The feeling of two people thinking about things together is completely different from that of two people working together.
Couples/husbands need independent space
1. First of all, you are yourself, then your father, mother, husband and wife... You must be able to be yourself first, and then Be able to fulfill other roles in yourself.
2. In a good intimate relationship, two people are independent and dependent. We can both be independent, but with you we are never alone.
3. Love does not require anyone to become someone's subordinate, but a happy cooperation. A simple example is that I cook and you wash the dishes. When traveling, I take care of the family's daily life and take beautiful photos, and you are responsible for doing it. Plan to take us to play.
So don’t always think that the closer two people are together, the better. Appropriate independent space is the most comfortable way for couples to get along!
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